I’m still here!

by Arizona Bloggette on May 13, 2010

Well, to say the least, I’ve been gone for awhile.  Luckily, I’m new so you all haven’t gotten to know me too much which means you haven’t been missing me too badly.  Right?

Anyway, I’m back and I’m hoping to get my contributions to this site into full swing.  The Spring school semester just ended for me which should give me more time to write around here.  That means, if I end up abandoning you all again, I have no excuse.  So, hold me to that.

Just to introduce myself again, I’m Michelle, the Arizona Bloggette.  I live in Flagstaff and I love it here.  My husband and I are already married through the Arizona Justice of Peace but we’re having a Catholic ceremony next year, Fall 2011.  I’ll definitely be posting more as the time gets nearer and as I get more stressed out.  As of right now, everything in the wedding planning category has been quite dubious for us.  We’ve thrown out a lot of ideas between each other and no less than a month later, those same ideas seem ludicrous.  The more and more I learn about the wedding industry, the better my ideas get.  So, the plans I had a few months ago seem so lame to me now.

With that being said, we still have over a year and a half to plan.  This give me time to keep the ideas flowing and gather more and more information.  So, I’ve decided to hold off on the official planning for now (in case I learn something better in the future) and focus on things that a little more immediate.  One of those being…a ring.

Since Matt and I dated for only two months before we randomly decided to get married, we didn’t have time to discuss rings.  And he didn’t have time to get me an official engagement ring which, at the time, was fine by me.  We decided that we’d hold off and get our more official rings into the future as the second ceremony approaches.  The other day, we finally sat down and started discussing what we, or rather “I”, was looking for.  This conversation was hard for me because honestly, I’m not one of those girls who knows exactly what she wants.  And that goes for anything.  I don’t picture myself in any particular dress, ring, color palette, you name it.

The only thing I do know is that I don’t want what everyone else has and that seems to be a solitaire diamond in a round or princess cut on a simple white gold or platinum band.  You know what I’m talking about.  It’s the standard Tiffany solitaire that it seems everyone hopes to duplicate.  Someone suggested to me several months ago to look into antique/vintage styled engagement rings since those usually tend to be different.

This idea was perfect for me because after I did a bit of searching, I was immediately drawn to antique style engagement rings.  I’ve narrowed it down to a few that I like which I hope to take to a private jeweler and have a similar design custom made for me.  Here are some of the styles I’m loving so far:

 

Do any of you think on of these is better than the other?  I would love opinions!

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Bridal Party Ettiquette

by Stamford Bloggette on May 4, 2010

When I asked one of my best friends to be a member of my bridal party, I gave her this book. I should have given it to all my bridesmaids but I asked her a little later and I wanted to be awesome.

I also bought it for myself.

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This past weekend I was in a bridal party as Matron (Maid. I hate the word matron) of Honor. And let me tell you, a few of the bridesmaids were so unhelpful, ungrateful and just overall bitchy. Mostly to me, but I expected that (longstanding issues).

Still though, here a few tips to be a good bridesmaid:

1. Expect to hemorrage money. Don’t get to the wedding and complain about how much money you’re being asked to spend. My friend did the good deed of letting us pick our dresses, and not asking anything from us. So it was a little off putting when two of the bridesmaids left the post-rehearsal dinner happy hour without paying for one or two of the bride and grooms drink and stiffing the rest of us on their own tabs. Being a part of a bridal party is not for the stingy.

2. Don’t forget your dress. Seriously, one of the girls forgot her dress. I don’t know the whole story but my dress was the first thing I packed in my bag because I was deathly afraid of forgetting it. Of course she was driving, so she spent an extra few hours driving back to get it.

3. Don’t be a bitch. Seriously, the day/weekend is not about you or any petty quarrels from the past. It’s about the bride and it’s generally a good thing if you don’t forget that.

4. Don’t complain to the bride. About anything really. My bridesmaids were amazing and helpful and I am forever grateful to that. When i forgot my razor blade at home, one of my gals went to CVS to buy me a new one. Kudos! But complaining about anything from the other bridesmaids, the cost of travel, your hotel, your cab driver, anything really is unnecessary and unbridesmaidly.

5. Be helpful! Bride needs a cigarette? Give her your last one! Bride wants some wine at 10am? Don’t ask questions. Make sure she eats, make sure she doesn’t have to do anything, and make sure that she’s happy, calm and breathing deeply to keep her nerves at ease.

 

 

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Guest List!

by DC Bloggette April 21, 2010

Has your guest list changed since you first started planning your wedding?
For the most part, you hear of people having to downsize their guest list after their budget is taken into consideration, but I had a different experience, and was able to add more guests than I thought I could.  Not that I even know [...]

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Bridesmaid gowns!

by Tennesse Bloggette April 13, 2010

Long time, no write, y’all.
Things have been uber busy, planning-wise, here in Tennessee, and I’m happy to report that we finally found the bridesmaid dresses.
I have eight bridesmaids, and NO ONE lives in the same town. In fact, I have a bridesmaid on every coast. And I had NO idea what we were going to [...]

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Search for The Dress

by CenCal Blogette April 12, 2010

When we first started planning our wedding at the beginning of the year, my wedding dress wasn’t really anywhere near the top of my To-Do list. I think mostly because the though of looking for it didn’t excited me AT ALL. Firstly, I have no idea what I want. Secondly, me + shopping = extremely [...]

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Be our guest!

by LA Bloggette April 7, 2010

So a while back my mom had given me a guest book to use at the wedding. It was your standard guest book with slots to write your name in and what not and I said sure, I’d use it. But then, then I saw the most amazing guest book ever and I absolutely HAD [...]

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Destination Wedding Bridesmaid Dresses

by Chicago Bloggette April 2, 2010

Now that our wedding is in Mexico, a lot of my planning is taken care of. This left me plenty of time to research bridesmaids dresses (I decided to purchase the dresses for the girls to help keep costs down since they’re traveling). I’m really picky—I didn’t want the “typical” bridesmaids dresses (read: no taffeta). [...]

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Hello from Arizona!

by Arizona Bloggette April 1, 2010

Hi everyone!  My name is Michelle and I am the newest addition to the bloggette family.  I am so excited to be here sharing my wedding planning adventures!  I am 25 years old (soon to be 26 in May) and I live in Flagstaff, Arizona.  I was always the kind of girl to take it [...]

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Videographer

by DC Bloggette March 29, 2010

When I first started planning my wedding, the first thing I told my parents was “I don’t need a videographer!  I’m never going to look at the video again!”
The more I read wedding blogs and message boards, the more I saw people emphasizing the importance of a videographer — they say your wedding day is [...]

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Simple, Reusable Centerpieces Inspired by IKEA

by Chicago Bloggette March 26, 2010

Most couples don’t have to worry about what to do with all of their centerpieces and decorations until after the wedding. Since our wedding was relocated from Chicago to Mexico, our situation was a bit different. Luckily, the centerpieces we had planned out were all made from pieces that could fit nicely into our home [...]

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